Why do masculine gay men treat their feminine gay boyfriends so badly? If I were a butch gay male, I think I could understand how it feels to love femme gay male. I swear I'd be a better man. I'd listen to him because I know how it hurts when you lose the one you wanted because he's taking you for granted and everything you had got destroyed. Why do butch gays treat their femme boyfriends like crap? |
I haven't seen this happen very often - if you have a friend or friends who are going through this encourage them to contact a gay helpline - it doesn't mean they have to break up - it just means you care about them and want them to know all their options.
Cheers |
How can you tell if your boyfriends gay? Looking for answers from the girls that have dated gay guys. I'm just a little worried. He has a super low sex drive and he's more... I don't know. I'm just looking for some help here. Answer if you've had some experience with this please. |
You know, I suspected my ex was gay for a lot of reasons, some of them were stupid reasons, like listening to a lot of lady gaga, while others were more serious.
The serious one's were getting a ******** from a guy (He was on E), and dating a transsexual, claiming he had no idea, but after finding out he continued to date them.
Those are some serious red flags, and I doubt your situation is as serious as that lol, but honestly, if he is gay then it's like having another life that you have to hide from everyone. Look for gay porn, see if he checks out guys etc.
Don't worry about the low sex drive though, that could be something else entirely. All I can tell you is follow your instinct. If you feel like something isn't right, then it probably isn't. |
Is it normal to be jealous of my (gay) boyfriends penis? I'm just shy of 6 inches maybe lacking a bit in girth and he's got to be 7 or so and plenty girthy... Is it strange to be a bit jealous? He doesn't seem to care how big I am in the slightest but having a penis like his has got to be a confidence-booster. Anybody ever in the same situation? |
| 6 inches is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. On top of that, you aren't dating a size queen. Don't feel so bad. You're fine. |
Why do so many straight American men have gay "boyfriends"? While in the US I met many straight American men who had gay boyfriends. They say they don't have sex with them, they just cuddle and look after them. Their girlfriends know about it and seem to think it's cute. I also think it's somewhat hot. Is this just a Chicago thing or nationwide? American men are such studs! |
| How many is many? I've been a part of the "gay culture" for 25 years, lived in Chicago, NYC, Washington, Cleveland, Dallas and LA, and have have never heard of or seen a straight man support a gay man, let alone cuddle. |
Should gay boyfriends be taken up the aisle? Isn't a church marriage ordained for the procreation of guyren? |
| No. Not all married couples have nor want guyren. Marriage doesn't necessarily lead to procreation. |
My boyfriends gay friend grabbed his tittie, is this weird? My boyfriend and I are in college and he saw one of his friends whom happens to be gay. they had a friendly hug, then the gay guy caressed my boyfriend's man boobie. and get this, my boyfriend actually smiled when he did this. is this weird or just friendly male interaction? |
| LOL we all do that sometimes well atleast around here >.> its just messing around like slapping you behind. Just friendly weird male interaction :] |
Where have gay guys met their boyfriends? I'm a gay male, 24, live in columbia, sc and can never seem to find the right one. There aren't any good gay bars/clubs here and online personals just aren't cutting it. So I want to know where/how all you guys met your boyfriend and any helpful suggestions. |
| I met mine picking squash on a hot summers day sweating up a storm working a summer job. Little did I know I had met him years before on the playground. |
How do you know when your boyfriends gay? i really think my boyfriends gay but i need to know the signs |
| If he prefers sex with other men to sex with you |
Any females who ever wondered if their boyfriends are gay? Have any of you had experiences where your bf came out? Did you have gut feelings about it before? Notice any signs?
This is a serious question, real experiences please. Any innapropriate comments will be removed. |
| I am a gay male and was asked by one of my exs after I broke up with her if I was gay. I was still in the closet and denied it. |